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Dulhin Vivah sanskaar
The Hindu marriage is divided into a few parts.
Tilak
Marriage usually starts with love.
After both parties have agreed, they promise each other that they will get married, which they do with a tilak. The Tilak can be seen as a kind of betrothal.
TILAK means that both parties will make a promise to each other to get married,
during this occasion they give each other gifts.
The dulhien's father, along with male relatives and his own pandit, goes to the dulha's house. Here a so-called ritual ceremony (puja) takes place. Then the dulhien's father places a tilak on the forehead of his future son-in-law. Finally, the father of the bride presents a gift to his future son-in-law.
supplies
pooja stuff
1x soparie sachet set (at Bharat Kings)
1x meter yellow cotton
1x sindhur
1x ground hardie
1x dubha grass
Food products
1x 500 grams yellow peas
1x kilo of rice
1x coconut with shell
1x mithai (for a gift)
Objects
1x thali lota lux
1x baby oil
1x luxury kurta
1x dhoti ready-made
1x baskit
1x gift
1x money
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Matkowra / Tilwaan
This ritual is necessary for both boys' side and girls' side
It is a kind of women's festival where they ask for blessing from mother earth and pray to mother earth to bless the marriage.
This ritual usually happens 2 days before the wedding or adjusted.
Pooja stuff
1x set of soparie bag (at Bharat Kings)
1x ready-made slide
1x sindhur
1x kapoor
1x gobhar
1 x meter yellow cotton
1x set of paan
1x kush grass
1 bunch of doebha grass
Objects
basket
pestle
dholak
flowerpot
soil
nickels 10x
Food products
1x 500 grams of ghee
1x 500 grams yellow peas
1x kilo of rice
1x coconut oil
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Lawa
This day symbolizes that the phoewas (sister(s) of father),
performing a ritual, a kind of bachelor party for the lucky bride or groom
By roasting the lawa rice/grain separately in both families, this rice is mixed on the day of the wedding, just like both
families come together.
1x dhaan (test in a pan to see if it pops)
1x yellow fabric
1x 500 grams of popcorn
1x oil
Objects
1x Sikh jaroe
2xbaskit
1x gas bomb and gas burner
1x wok (karai)
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Bhiya girls
Wedding package for Friday and Saturday pooja
Girls' side is called gharati and welcomes the boys' side (the baraatis).
supplies
pooja stuff
1 x Bharat Kings pooja package complete for Friday
1 x Bharat Kings pooja package complete for Saturday
1x pakha durga dhaar
1x lawang
2x bhoerkie (clay vase)
1x kalsa (large clay vase)
1x dhaan
1x slide large
10x slide small
1x beer (for nechoe, decorating feet)
2x bharat kings dhoop wood
2x match
2x 3 meters white cotton
1x set jar of hardi whole
1x ground hardie
1x hawankund
1x harris
1x kanghan (ready-made gold kanghan with penny, knife, soparie and metal)
specially available at Bharat Kings
Other Objects
1x sil lohra
1x warmala set (wedding mala)
Other Objects Thali Lota
10x thali lota set for maro (eating plates for baraat)
1x small thali lota for sia bala (bride's boy)
1x luxury thali lota for Dulha dinner plate
1x luxury thali lota set for kanyadaan
1x thali lota with decoration for dulha parche
2 x bowls in the dulha parche thali for tanning and tambulam (paan)
Fresh leaves (buy 3 days vtv) fresh every week at Bharat Kings
2 x paan set
2x aam set
2x dubha grass
2x kush grass
2x set of toes
2x fresh coconuts
1x banana tree
Food products
2 x liters of ghee
1x raisins
1x here
1x semolina
1x 500 grams of primal whole
1x kg of rice
1x honey
If a DURGA PATH also takes place
you must purchase these products separately, this is optional:
1x set jaiver
1x kaphar
1x durga djandi set
1x tjaterpal djandi
1x hanuman djandi complete
9x bamboo stick 120cm
2x bamboo stick 150cm
1x 1 meter red cotton
1x set of fresh neem leaves
What do you give Daan/ gift to priest?
Daan is a gift that you give to the priest and also his helper (Narrow)
Everyone has their own insight into what he or she can provide.
We advise you to get to know your pandite well what his needs are so that you know exactly what he finds appropriate and accepts.
These are the usual products that you can give daan, of course you can adjust this:
On a Copper Thali:
On a copper Thali: money (of your choice)
1x kilo of rice,
1x 1 liter oil,
1x 500gr yellow peas, or raw peas,
1x white or brown beans
1x masala
1x yellow besan or primal besan
1x clothing in the shape of a dhoti
1x beautiful scarf
1x booklet Gita or Ramayan
1x 1.25 euro dakshina
1x envelope with money
(indicative amount of an average hourly wage of a specialized professional
between 25 and 50 per hour without travel costs)
